Living with a MLC'er is not so easy.

How big is your house?

Can you live in separate areas?

Somehow the two of you are going to have to figure out something with your kids.

Maybe this is what needs to be addressed with the therapist, not your relationship issues.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.