What has worked for me is time, patience and faith. Take this TIME and make yourself better enjoy life and your kids. Be PATIENT don't force a square peg in a round hole.take small steps and work a little at a time. and have FAITH in what you are doing.it won't happen overnight although we all wish it.
by no means am I out of the woods yet but I can see some clearing and this is what has worked.
God Bless
H 49 W 42 S 19 S 14 S 12 S 8 D 6 M 19 Bomb dropped 2/09 Separated 5/09 still hopeful, praying