I am sure that can all be a bit stressful and no one wants to feel manipulated(I had that from my ex). But maybe if you have them on and just as you are changing...
I think he really needs to talk to his doctor about his meds but I think he will have to feel that he decided that. I have no doubt that he is very happy to be back with you and loves you a great deal.
Some sexual aids may be in order for you because really there are several ways to "do it".
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory