What should I do Red? Should I go as friends? That's all I'm looking for....all of my female friends are M and don't go out and I'm sick of getting turned down.

Or should I just go by myself somewhere? I don't want to give anyone the wrong idea, and this person knows how I feel about my M. Did it take you to find out your W was seeing someone to wake you up? Is that what you are suggesting I do?

Can't thank you enough for giving me hope. I really believe that your sitch will work out also. I really mean that, she will see that you are sorry for what had happened someday.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08