Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

Thanks everybody for your responses.

No, I don't believe H will go to C. If he knows that I am taking the boys for C about this sitch, he probably wouldn't let them go. I figure I will go myself a few times and then take the boys.

This morning, I told me S8 that he shouldn't feel like he HAS to tell me the bad stuff that H says about me, just if it was really bothering him or he really felt like he needed to. I told him that I don't want him to feel like he has to take sides, to leave the worrying up to the grown-ups. I know him though, he is very cerebral and he will ruminate on it and let it make him angry or hurt or both. AND he is very protective of me.

I really feel like I have a dilemna on my hands. I don't want to tell H that S told me what he has been saying, but I feel it is important to tell him to leave the boys out of this and stop badmouthing me.