I feel for you....but all you did is fire off a warning shot. If he does not react to this than you really know there is no hope. As others mentionned here, if he wants back in, he should be doing cartwheels to get your attention. Not stalling for whatever reason. Anyhow, it sounds like stalling from where I am sitting. Like T said, you are more than capable of seeing what is going on and acting upon it. I think that is what you did. If you would have seen some type of action on his part (other than him confiding in his mommy), I am sure that you would have waited a few more weeks. Hope this all works out for the best for you and your kids.
