Per the MC- my goals if this marriage is to be healthy and happy:
No sex with outsiders (duh!) Adult profiles removed Improved communication thru MC- Learning to listen without interrupting or judging H to get medical treatment for chronic sleep issues H to get to get IC for sex and anger issues and I continue my IC GAL as a couple and individually Anybody have any other suggestions?
These don't sound like goals- they sound like requirements, and I don't think they are really negotiable. I don't think I'm sharing these with H until the MC next week.
