W can't break EA - not sure how to handle it

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So would binviting single moms over for playdates (for the children I mean) be considered dating?

tristan was the first one to suggest this!

And have decided against it for the reasons stated above.

You can date without involving your kids and without, as Rob so eloquently put it, "sexy time explosions"...

Playdates with single moms are fine IMO if the kids are friends and you are doing it without an agenda...But, given your sitch, it could get iffy.