I actually think it is my H that my son misses since he was the one that raised him. And he misses that, I think my S thinks that is the reason my H doesn't contact him because he is not blood. But that is so wrong to treat anyone like that. He raised him and my S looked up to him and called him Dad on his own.
Wifey,
I don't tell my daughter what to write in the letters or help her, her counselor has her respond. The last one she wrote on her own and asked me what I thought and I told her she did a great job and told the truth and that's all that counts.
As far as GAL I do everything in the house on my own, take care of the 2 children, work 2 jobs so I have little time of enjoyment.
But that is fine, I have a life now. And my GAL is finally getting off of the couch and doing stuff around the house instead of sitting and crying.
I don't feel new to the sitch at all. It has been over 10 months now and feel like their is very little hope since H doesn't contact me at all.
I was asked out just as friends to go to the movies or something but I don't know what to do. If I'm standing for my M that would be wrong. But I'm so sick of not doing or going any where sometimes at least for an hour or two.
