At the marriage class we talked about the emotional needs of couples. It's based on a 1991 book "His needs, her needs." The top five needs of men are the bottom five of women and the bottom five of women are the top five of men. Go figure.
Would love to know what those are if you remember.
I think GALing is a must these days. It does help me to detach and it gives me something else to THINK about other than H and the situation that I find our family in. It is hard for me to clinically explain to myself that I have to detach, not only for me but ultimately for the sake of the R. No matter the outcome, I have to bury the old R and move forward with a new R with H - whether that is a M or a D...given that we have two very young children - he will be in our lives forever. So detaching is the only way to "wash that man right out of my hair" if you will. Take care!
HIW M 35 H 37 D 5, D 2 Married 1996 Dating 1992 Met 1988 EA/PA started March 2009 Bomb 6/16/2009 Separated 6/23/2009
