Don't you dare regret anything you did or didn't do!!! It's not about you, it's your H. He sounds like a confused person. I know he's going to have major regrets in the future. His choice though.

Let me know how eharmony goes if you do it. I was thinking about doing one of those sites. I've always loved their commercials; it looks very cool. I think there are tons of single guys in AK aren't there?

I was also thinking about doing one or 2 of the meetup groups. Maybe not a singles group, but like a movie club or book club or something like that, where there's singles but not the main focus of the group. I don't know if AK has much, but they have lots in my area.

Congrats on the interview!!! That to me is the hardest part. When I was jobhunting last time (over a decade ago) I had tons of them no problem. It's so different now; for the jobs I've turned in there are about 200 applicants now, so much competition. It's an honor just to get an interview I think.


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