Just journaling. Had to see the WAW for a minute yesterday as I dropped off our girls so I could go to a marriage rebuilders class. I was in and out fast and she actually said goodbye. I had forgotten to.
At the marriage class we talked about the emotional needs of couples. It's based on a 1991 book "His needs, her needs." The top five needs of men are the bottom five of women and the bottom five of women are the top five of men. Go figure.
Going through them one by one was a revelation. I was probably meeting 1 1/2 of her five top needs and she was meeting two of my top five.
No wonder we are in the place we are now.
I'm wondering if she'll call today or tomorrow. That was what we'd set up two weeks ago. I'm pretty busy both days so I won't worry too much.
In general, I'm feeling good today. I'm trying to set up a fun weekend in Chicago in two weeks with an old friend to help with the GALing. _____________________ M: 40 W: 38 Married: 13 years D: 10 D: 7 Bomb dropped: 2-09 Moved out: 5-09 No legal steps taken
