Originally Posted By: john210
I would suggest a boarding school with a military "atmosphere", however, i decided to listen to NGF for an hour and not suggest any solutions. How do you women do it? that was extremely difficult. I guess you can chalk that one up to experience. Did alot of listening today.......

Awesome! It is difficult for us men to stop the urge to fix. Just remember that her feelings about the problem is the problem. Just being a sounding board with some paraphrasing of understanding is all you need to do. If she asks you for advice, then you should mention the straight jacket, duct tape or military academy.