I'm so happy for you Lodo! It sounds like you've been having good times. I think it's good you're just kind of slowly wading in the dating pool it sounds like. Not jumping in over your head or whatever. I bet one of those women will just suddenly click at some point for you and hard to know which one. I've only had 2 ltr's so I don't know much, but both were friends and I was surprised when it turned into more than that. I would never have guessed ahead of time.
I was thinking today your X I bet could have written that awesome article you posted last month, you know about the D women who had regrets. I think she has them now, and will get even more so in the future.
Speaking of making friends, has anyone tried the meetup groups? I looked online and they seem to have tons of different groups--I was thinking about trying those out after the D. Not just the singles ones, but for me book club or something like that.