I think so too, Kat. I wouldn't meet up with a married man. I think it's a good thing you sound like you mended fences with him, so that's a good thing though.
Kat, I do think you should try casual dating now. Just to meet and make friends not for a love connection or anything. One of my good friends recently divorced, and did a singles group in her town for 6 months or so and she said it was really good just to get out and socialize and make friends. I don't think she ever really dated any of them, but then when she met "the one" 6 months later at her work gym, I think she was really ready for that (and they're engaged to be married now). She really recommends it. I'm going to do it too December 1st!
