Get a lawyer.

Read DB/DR

Prepare for either outcome. Understand all the consequences, growth, healthy change and needs for either.
- Divorce
- Reconciliation

Even though she is across the country your actions are being watched. Your kids need you to be wise and strong. You can handle it.

Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.