Thanks to the resources. I know what I have you all are going to help me through it.

My children are going to suffer like none other,too.They all ready are and I need to give them a healthy boundary.

I'd like to let her counselor know,I know what she's going thru.ie:I'll take her the mlc for dummies.

The steps I am taking.Support group,forum,live as if plan. I am a leader and I want to be a better one.

We have a room in the basement,I'd like to have that room,to give spouse space and I can focus on the children.