Well, nothing came of lunch whatsoever. She never spoke a word about the D and anything about us. We just talked as friends. I finally asked her if there was a reason she asked me to lunch out of the blue and she said she was just trying to be nice and not to talk about D, but said we could if I wanted to. I said that was great and nice and I appreciate her asking but I assumed due to the timing of me finding out about the D being filed the night before the invite that it was about that. She agreed to that, but said it wasn't the case. I asked her if she has talked to her L anymore and she said not since she told him to file last week. I asked her what the next step was and she said she didn't know and was going to take a few days to get her head on straight before she talks to him again.
We left on a good note yesterday but I haven't talked or texted her since. I have been on the deep underground for the last two weeks. No communication at all unless it is necessary logistical stuff. I am nice when I do, but I just don't do it much at all and I never initiate. This is a big 180 for me right now. Pretty sure it doesn't matter at this point, but that is what I am doing.
I am leaving to meet with my L right now. Updates later today.
