My H has never been into oral (he was into taking but never giving in that aspect) and as for any other kind of 'play', he just does not innitiate and I can't handle more rejection... so we are at am impasse.
Last night was a little breakthrough of sorts, he came in to talk and saw that I was laying down and without saying a word he climbed into bed with me and held me. Nothing beyond an innocent cuddle but he has not done anything like that in more years than I can count. Maybe he was testing me to see if I would pull away?
M- 11 y H- 40 Me- 41 D (1st M) 19 S (1st M) 17 First EA (w/OOW)discovered 2000 Third EA (w/OOW & phone) discovered 02/06 SSM (total) 3 1/2 years
