Actually, she was highly involved in the kids schooling as my work schedule and my own schooling at the time they entered school disallowed me to make most of the functions. So I never really fully understood how S12's program worked until last year when I stepped up to the plate.
I will be emailing S12's teacher and all of S11's teachers as I had indicated yesterday to keep me informed at least on a bi-weekly basis of progress and issues, and especially any issues that involve communication from home that goes unanswered. Thtat worked pretty well last year, and did give me a leg up towards potentially winning custody even with just the e-mails to show as the school administration elects to not become in volved with doestic disputes unless a child is endangered emotionally or physically.
A revised custody agreement appears to be getting closer and closer so I'm starting to watch my arse. I'm seriously contemplating officially requesting that the pickup and drop arrangements be adheared to or revised as I no longer feel it is healthy for me to be around her blasted house. But, then again, if she moves away, she's responsible for full transport any how, but I don't want that douchebag of OM any where near where I live, so that's a problem. For now, my cousin has offered to drop them off (my portion of the agreement) on Sunday's to help eliviate some of the problem.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
