Hi kids

No prob Rabbit the more the merrier. This is an early stage for you so you’ve got a better chance of turning your sitch round. I did all the wrong things for months, then we had terrible counseling from Relate which made the problems worse. I probably didn’t discover DB until my H had been gone for about a year, but think if I knew earlier I’d have been more successful. Good luck to you.

Cas I’m beginning to see that there is be a difference between loving my H and loving him as a H and wanting him to come home. I know that I love him but can I now after nearly two years and OW really love him like a W should? Not sure.

Anyway tomorrow’s the family meal so need to get looking fabulous for that. Perhaps when I see him in that sort of setting my mind will have made a decision.

Thinking of starting a club with my mate, it’s called FLAB (Find a Loaded and Attractive Bloke) anyone else care to join?


married 23 years
4 grown up kids