who is this man?

[Ms Jen]

Well... H said he wanted to take S16 to the martial arts thing last night. The two of them have been talking about maybe doing judo together and H wanted to talk with the instructors. I bowed out and let the boys go and went for a run instead. S16 actually sparred some, and, as he said, got his a$$ kicked LOL. But he wants to go back and I think it would be good for him, self confidence wise. Hope H will pay for it.

D18 called last night and said she's gonna play lacross at college. Okay... have you ever played? Sure, once or twice in HS. Well hey if it keeps her in town and too busy for her loser boyfriend I'm all for it.

We got invited to a friends' kid's wedding out of town in Oct. Really more H's friend. H remembered we needed to RSVP and so I said whatever he wanted to do, just let me know. Then I went for a swim, wondering if he'd just he's going, he and I are going, he and S are going, all of us are going, or no we're not going. Yeah, it shouldnt matter, and I'm grasping I know. H said all of us are going, which made me feel better, then I remembered that things can change like the wind and it means little to nothing.

So H and I co-exist amicably and chit chat some and, if we were touching or talking about anything substantial, would have a pretty normal relationship for us. When I have the occasional MTF moment I go swim or run, which is my way of GAL.