strong & patient (most days)

[dday101798]

Uggh, I'm sorry Karen.

XW did the very same thing to me for months. Most the weekly groceries I'd buy I had to throw out as most night's the kids or a kid was supposed to be with me ended up being an empty house. And of course, talking with the police, pointless. I still never understood how the other parent can remove them from the family home with no permission what so ever, craziness this system is. Even worse was when a temp visitation schedule was established an dshe was awarded weekends, she never returned them the first following Monday, and yet that was "ok", whatever.

Chin up, he's digging a BIG BIG hole. I don't care what they say, the courts still favor the mother. I'd double check around for ANYTHING your STBX can dangle over over your head to paint you the 'bad one'. I sure got a lot of surprises in my case, lyrics written for songs taken as "suicide notes", a months worth of recycle beer boxes I let linger to throw out at one time meant I was an "alcoholic" backed up by a picture taken of "my refridgerator" AFTER I LEFT the house, full of alcohol, are just the highlights.

It's a dirty game and apparently he's ready to play.

EDIT- as far as the table of divorcees goes: does you church have group session for divorce concolations? (support groups?) maybe that was a devine intervention? And that's shocking for me to say as I still have some issues to mend with 'the big guy'.