The shoulder sounds similar to what I experienced when the nerves stopped tingling. It's like all the residual pain from that concentrated into one area. Could be a good thing.
As far as the school.....honestly, how involved in both of their schooling has she been in the past? Was she only there because you took her along? When she went did she as clear, leading questions of the teachers? Did she take notes?
If she wasn't involved before, why would she be now?
My son's school does the same thing as far as rotating in 9 minute intervals with 5 minutes between to dash to their next class. Considering how huge my son's school is that was quite a challenge! His dad didn't bother showing up either, but I really didn't expect him to since he wasn't ever involved in his learning experience.
Stay as involved as you can. Be 'the man'! The more ineracation you an have in their daily lives the better. If it comes down to a revised custody agreement then you will have all of this to back it up!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
