I was told to just enjoy the interaction when that was going on and I did. It was good advice. Also don't read into it. He's probably tired of the drama too.
In terms of bills, you have no choice but to stay on top of them. They aren't going to go away. Maybe you could establish a business meeting time with your H, a standing every week meeting. My H and I do that. When we can't meet, we do it the same day by email. And I sort of like the email beter because then there is documentation and the ability to refer back to it, in case one of us forgets something.
I am still dealing with the crazy, about 10 months now this week.
