Bluerain, part of their selfish strategy is to keep us off balance. I am certain you did NOT imagine the closeness and familiar fun. I like to read what you write on these boards {and otherwise!} because you are always practical and realistic about your options. You keep forging along with the bigger picture in mind.
I am sorry that your plans for the military are not exactly an option right now, but I am convinced that you will do well with your schooling and get where you want to go.
I wish I could hike with you. Right now, I am just intent on hiking 'away' from my own situation. I have let it drag out too long and got slapped back in a harsh way, lately.
You could stalk the cruise boats for dating options! I am certain the huge staff is there looking for adventures of all sorts. Even romantic ones.. you could charm them!
Good luck with your interview. I'm certain it will go well.