Give it to me straight!

[AliSuddenly]

"last night, from Canada, he told her that he wants his family back. He doesn't want to live without us."

Wow Bobbi, thats great!! Its not just words though, he is moving through a process and starting to now VERBALISE what he wants (action may take longer, yes) and more importantly, he has voiced it to his Mum.. and thats a big deal. Mums are usually on a need to know basis hey, so if he feels able to tell her, its a big step I would say. My bf told BMF in late January he knew it was over with Helen, he would never love her, missed me and wanted back what we had, wanted to recreate it again...I luckily found that out, like you have, but he still didnt even PHONE me until late March and then saw me (2 months later). There were then delays whilst he worked alongside her March and April and couldnt face the ordeal of ending it, despite he says, knowing what he wanted and desperately worrying I would meet someone else in that time...and so didnt finish with ow until beginning of May.. so it took him over 4 months from when the penny dropped!

I hung in there and I remember posting alot getting very frustrated and like you, thinking.. more words, when he is finally going to 'turn' as the db process calls it?? It was nothing to do with me.. his BMF advised me.. just keep doing what you are doing, keep just being you..because thats what he misses.

I am rooting for you! Keep the faith.. Oh and I read this and thought of you (Priya, yesterday):

With the Earth dangling between Saturn and Uranus as they exact their opposition today, we can expect shake-ups in the order of things. Uranus is the planet that represents the new, the flash of lightning that in one swoop lights the landscape so we can see the road ahead even on a dark stormy night. Saturn is the planet that represents structure — that which is taking form. It also represents the gateway between the past and the future, slowing us down to learn the lessons of the present.

Pisces is a water sign, its energy is lucid, ethereal, imaginative and what we call cosmic consciousness. Virgo its opposite sign is an earth sign that reflects this energy on an earthly, material plane. It is also the sign of healers and those that serve selflessly, doing God’s work — but this is true of each of us depending on where we have Virgo in our charts.

As Saturn in Virgo now opposes Uranus in Pisces we are learning to manifest soulful values into earthly form. We are also in the dark of the Moon as the New Moon in Virgo conjuncts and triggers this opposition in the next couple of days, and this aspect is seeding the energy. In the midst of what can be considered chaos is our chance to carve a ground breaking path catapulting us into the future.

...seems like Dan had his lightning bolt moment before he called up his Mum?