Oh god, that is exactly the same as my ex. We started to do all kinds of stuff together and then I pushed on her a bit. She said she was uncomfortable as she felt I had expectations more than friends....well of course I did. Anyway, I ended us going out. It just became too painful. I also realized that I was initiating the invites. I think that is the problem. Unless the WAW is the one asking to go out then you are setting yourself up for a pile of hurt. I too took my ex on my new motorcycle. It was not so good as she didn't want to hug me to hang on. Sorry, I don't have any answers. I feel for you my friend.
yeah I think the problem is OM is still around for now.... bet once she moves in with mom and dad ALL interest will soon fade she still likes to hug me alot and I mean like WTF trying to hurt me tight hugs LOL. like I said hugs arnt cheating (roll eyes) thats funny back in july she was ridding with me and was not hugging me, she would put her hands on the tank just so we didnt touch. now on the bike she will hug me real tight then start playing with my jacket a little. i guess we did hold hands a little too! started as helping her up a hill and she never let go I was the one who said something about if this was really helping and let go.
I doubt anyone has an answer other than OM needs to be out of the picture. then what? im back up? man idk why im so pissed again but im keeping a happy face on around her
oh yeah she hates smokers yet OM smokes so much W just smells like it 24/7 and when we went to eat the first time W says non smoking then turned to me and says nope i dont smoke so.... this OM is her match for sure
i better read DB again befor i say something I will regret
