she was texting last night and then right away today so i know she was excited to go.. I picked her up on the bike and we rode about 2 hours and i stopped and let her have a break (WOW thats a trouper for her to sit on a rocket bike that long no complaints) well I got a speeding ticket but other than that we made it up there and we went to one of the theame parks went on some roller coasters (OM i guess refuses to ride any) W also told me she is getting kicked out of the lease and moving with her parents (WTF wow she is doing so well now) then we went on the gokarts and went on the indoor water park. we had a lot of fun. although she did say she felt uncomfortable when we were in the hot tubs. I guess my daughters did tell W they were trying to get me to hook up with her friends mom so i had to laugh a little then we went to eat W was got a major migraine and while we were at there eating i called the clinic but I guess up there those things go to the hospital so we bassically didnt get to eat and i drove her to the hospital in the next town over. we spent hours there I belive 3? then we went back into town and played mini golf and then went to play this game where you have to figure out clues and such (very long game) well she had a blast we both did it was alot of work going room to room and figuring stuff out. (we laughed because I never thought i would be crawling and looking for hidden doors) well we didnt get everything figured out in the 90min time frame and the lady let us in after telling us where the missing things were (we were like WTF we knew the one opening but pushed on it wrong) W just kept saying how much fun she had there she was smiles ear to ear! and must have said that like 5 times Then we went to eat at a resourt we had stayed at a year earlier we both loved the place and talked about going back some day she thanked me for a great day again but then said "Nice friend only day!" I ended up through normal conversation found out OM was there when she started pulling back again (now is clear like in other posts i read she clearly "does not want to cheat on her BF with her husband" I found out he is not with this other girl anymore but W is not "dating him" hes just fun to be with they have so much in common I aske liek what? and got "well.... we just have lots of fun doing the same things" (so bassically nothing just lust IMOP) well drove the bike half way to my house then stopped and let her rest. I called my friend and told him how OM was still in the picture again and how upset i was I wanted to tell her we had a great day and I was done because she wont work on us ect ect, he told me just let it be.. (he does not understand why I still want us to work though) so I said fine I guess this DB stuff like BR just said tells us to let it go and let the WAS bring it up
we drove to my house and got the firebird to take her home. she asked if she could drive it home (Its a manual and she was driving my cars last summer learning but gave up why???) so I was like ok why not she was still all smiles. (oh and she said hi to my friend who she has had major major issues with since we sep. and she has said she hates him! yet another friend she now seems ok with) she checked in on the kids and we left the whole way to her place we talked just like we were two best friends well the whole day was like that! and no odd moments nothing! she wants to barrow the car but I said we would have to see (I dont want OM in my car) and ofcourse she thanked me again for the great day. we hugged and i gave her a kiss on her cheak.
I honestly dont think she was this happy in well years or IDK i mean she was just smiles all day with only a few times like the migrain and just after we got back into town up north!
but yet im so pissed thinking ok, we have so much in common, get along great, clearly can have ALOT of fun to the point she is this happy. "misses us, the fun we had and the M" so WTF gives im so upset right now!
i expected a text as i left from her though and never got one which seemed odd but as much thanking me she did maybe she figured not to.(usually she does)
*so much to take in we spent ALL day togeather so WOW stuff said that i missed writing I guess but NO fights not one tiff! so I would say again WTF how can we be such good friends yet in her mind not right??