Hi Sara,

I'm sorry...I don't understand your post. Who's not ready for Retro? Is your post directed towards me or GIMA? I hope your post isn't directed towards me. I have been following your suggestion about being cool, nice, polite, strong, and confident as I wait for our October 16 Retrovaille. Retrovaille is going to be my last resort for saving my marriage. I am hopeful for success considering Orich's recent experience. I'm just struggling with my emotions right now as I wait for Retrovaille. I can't help but feel resentful as my W has been attempting to break up my family over the last six months...I consider my emotions to be normal. I also consider myself lucky in having my W agree to Retrouvaille, but the waiting game is tough. I just have thirty days left...I've been doing this for six months now...so what's another 30 days...I keep telling myself.

Regards,
LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009