I can relate to your interest in the Retro thing. I couldn't wait till Orich posted about his experience. Although I'm happy for him, I was disappointed about his resignation from this BB. I really wanted to here about his experience...what caused a change of heart for his wife, etc. I guess I'll just have to wait my turn.
You may want to ask Sara about the best way to approach your W for Retro. Your W may be ready...your posts have been very positive of late.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009