Originally Posted By: Jman
Hey does anyone have suggestions on how to spend an anniversary with a WAW? Our 10th anniversary is this Friday and I was wondering if I should do anything at all. I was thinking of a card only but idk.
Any help on this would be appreciated.


Jman,

As you know from following my sitch, I sent a TM to my W while she was on her recent out of state trip telling her Happy Anniversary. It was our 17th wedding anniversary. That was it and I waited until a quarter to midnight her time to do it. I was tempted beforehand to do a nice card with some mushy sentiments (like I usually do) but I didn't. Glad I kept it to a TM- my W was with OM when she got the TM! I would have felt like a bigger fool than I was had I done anything more.

As a side note, when my W's B-Day came up last month, it was NO card, NO present, NO dinner out and NO "Happy Birthday" from me. Nothing. It was just another day for me.


M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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