well...I was actually gonna say that was a good job about the tilting head thing. Because, one, if she had opened up, she probably would have started crying..not entirely a good thing right now as it may put pressure on him. and two, because she was honest and didn't say "nothing", and told him what it was when she was ready. I think doing it in the text allowed her to keep her expectations at zero, and the fact that she said no response needed, let him off the hook (which I think can be a good thing, depending where you are at in your sitch) and she didn't force him to feel guilty, she just spoke her feelings, and no blame was given.

but M from ten...I understand where your coming from too.

I think she did good though.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."