Today he did about three of the things I put on my list I would like to see him either work on or I would like to see more of.
Other DBers have given ultimatums, for lack of a better word, I am not sure it's the best word in certain circumstances, including mine. But sometimes it's "I will not share my spouse with another person". This time for me it's "I need this now".
Really. That's just where I am. If he can't, then I'm ok. And I'm not saying he has to plan our renewal ceremony, but I need to know something here. I'm done spinning. I'm ready to continue to work on this but WITH HIM no longer alone. (And to his defense, I will say he has made more effort recently than before, but again, then why file?) But I'm tired. And I'm up against a clock here. If he's not going to try and really make an concentrated effort toward us, I understand. Let me go now then.
