Journaling:

Was able to get the girls out the door by 7:30 this morning. Had a decent day at work. Talked to the IC about my first week seperated. Told him that I was doing better than I had expected and about going from being intimate to essentially NC overnight.

He wanted to know my plan. Hmmmm, don't I get a little more time than a week to come up with a plan for my life after my wife walks out on me? I guess not. That's when I told him about my plans for Gal'ing. Beyond that I am just going to settle into my new life.

He seemed to be pretty pessimistic about the prospects for our marriage. I am guessing he knows a little more than I about our relationship because he can share info with my wife's IC (they are part of the same clinic).

I took had the girls again tonight. We watched another movie tonight. This time I put a sheet out over the floor with a bunch of pillows. I ended up being the pillow for the girls. It was nice, but still not the family it used to be. I will need to do something more than movies for entertainment pretty soon. I am just trying to get into a flow right now.

I sent W an e-mail this morning:
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Hi.
Girls did fine last night. We all watched “Witch Mountain”. D3 ended up in my bed.
-T

She replied:
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Thanks! Glad to hear it

That was it for our communication today. Strange how things change in a week.


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1