Got home last night before H but that was okay. H rang to say he was on his way and would try to be home as quickly as he could but the freeway traffic was stopped for roadworks (we have one freeway that has had non stop roadworks for 5 years no end in sight). Also asked how my night was.
Anyway, he gets home, I am in bed reading. He comes in and says hi, looks at my underwear on the dresser. I asked how his meeting went and then there was no further conversation. He looked at me a couple of times.
This morning, he appeared to be a bit angry, it was more the jealousy face and manner he had, so obviously the mind is working overtime now. He asked if I went to the new gym near us or the old one before going out. Said I ended up just going straight out and didn't worry about the gym.
He left for work very quickly, definitely one rattled cage. Now this is very hard for me because he could go either way here, he will either pull further away or chase and I am just not sure which one he will choose and I certainly don't want to see him pull further away.
The thing I find funny is how in their mind if they go off and do whatever with whoever that is okay and you have to suck it up, but if you so much as look like you might be up to something it is a different matter all together.
Keep rattling him Oz, he might choose wrong this time but choose right next time, only time will tell. I know how you feel Im trying my hardest to block out all the scenario re-runs Im doing in my head as I know none of them are going to be right and quite frankly H doesnt deserve my brain space at present. ((HUGS))
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I don't know, he seemed to be really annoyed this morning, not mopey like in the past, but then really, he didn't ask who I was with, so he is making assumptions on his own. He just appears to have reacted differently this time to me going out.
Okay, won't panic. In your opinion, do you think it is appropriate for me to ask me if he has any plans for this coming weekend.
What I am trying to work out is if he does have plans that don't include me, I need to know as it will affect what I do and where I go as I won't have him around to collect D after two parties this weekend at around 1am in the morning.
It's just a different manifestation of getting his attention.