false alarm, i think, wasn't a process server. just found out my landlord stopped by last night to ask about the rent. so the knock on the door was probably her. not 100% though, could've missed one or the other of them while i was on a walk.



so, still hanging in there, hoping my W is at least stalling on the divorce.

me 30
WAW 30
M 8 yrs
T 9.5 yrs

3 cats 9,6,6


W left 5/31/09
W stopped most contact 06/26/09
W filed 7/22/09
(haven't been served)