geez ..do I have to be a referee around here or what.
We are all fine people on here with various views and various menas and methods for getting across and sharing those views. We are all commonly grounded in a steadfast desire to heal our M's or the R with a former S.
May there be peace, compassion and understanding.
And if anyone would like a real, real good book reference, I seem to have lost where I wrote it down at but it is a simple title and a simple and poignant book for the ages on M's. I am almost certain even without my crib notes that the gem that I found in my local library (where it seems I almost live ..another story for another time ..) is called The Twelve Gifts of Marriage by a woman by the last name Costanzo. It was put out by HarperCollins in 2005 and it is right up my alley cuz it is the size of a pre-kindergartners book and has nice pics. It is incredibly well-done and what a message it delivers. If I should be invited to any weddings in the short or long term it would make a most fitting gift for the newlyweds.