Blue Rain, You are a gorgeous girl, and you played this 'reunion' very well. I have been reading along. I used to think we could laugh and drag them back to us.

I don't think that anymore. I appreciate how tough you are. I wanna be tough too. I adore how you just keep trying. And then I love how you regroup when it founders... I thought you were brave to have sex. You were braver to jump back.

BlueRain, Kristen, I will never kiss an otter... I think you are great and I am so sorry that your H is 'confused'

My husband is 'confused' as well.

Let's take a hike.