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Ok so what do I need to do so I don't get divorced in 6 months?


Patience.

And that wasn't some BS cutesy simple answer to sound all zen.

You will need patience.

Force yourself to stop knee-jerk reactions to her actions.

Stop trying to force your will on the situation.

Slow down.

There is no quick fix here, and no you aren't different in that you will find one...it doesn't exist.

I am lucky in that I am one of the quickest through my wife's MLC, and that took a couple of years, and tested me more than I ever thought it would.

BUT I am a success because of who I have become, not because my wife came back.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet