It's odd to me that he would even wonder if I prefer that he stay over there. Isn't it obvious?
Here's a good rule of thumb:
If a woman doesn't want to be with you on a fabulous European vacation . . . she doesn't want to be with you anywhere.
Yes, I think he believes he is getting a penalty free shot at door #3. Do you think it is possible he thinks the cancelled vacation would have no effect on our relationship? I think there's a law that cancelling a vacation like that carries a minimum penalty of 6 months separation.
gucci said that the first stage when you start agreeing with them is relief. We saw that.
In the second stage they start testing to see if you will really let them go. is this stage 2?
And I hope gucci hasn't deserted us.
ETA: I don't really want him here, but I would prefer that over him being with someone else over there. These things aren't rational.
