C - I think you did great on Sunday except for asking her out on a date. It's too soon. Especially since she hasn't pursued you at all. I know it's hard to not want to try, but the ball is in her court.
Stay strong and remember you deserve better... hopefully it will come from her or she will regret it soon...
PMA
Not sure if I would really consider going out to dinner last Sunday as a date, but I can see how it could be see as such. My true intentions had been to work out a way to avoid this thing between us spiraling out of control into WWIII. I believe I have accomplished that.
She did send me an email last week lamenting about how she expected us both to go to the B'day party when I haven't wanted to talk to her nor do anything together.
Perhaps another motive had been that I wanted to prove to myself, as well as show her, that I can do both if I choose to. I have done that.
Now the next move will be up to her to decide if we will again. If she asks, I will need to decide if I have any reason to do so.....
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
