WOW...Maybe you needed the "blow out" to make him understand how serious you are?? Maybe??

I would definately try to just "detach" from him awhile.

I don't get it, is he trying to get her to feel sorry for him?? By saying "oh she deserves better" Im such a bad husband boo hoo???

Ok sorry, I couldn't help that smile

Yes you are too good for him, but we already knew that?? Did he get his hunting license yet?? I can't believe its around the corner already.

Take care of yourself, and just do your thing, make him wonder.

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.