HANG ON BY YOUR BOOT STRAPS... I dont mean to sound negative...but this is something that will take lots of time....I have been on this ride for over 2 yrs. I have no contact with my husband...he is living with the o/w.... he has pretty much put us out of his mind.... At this point and time in my life all I have is God to help me. With all the emotions that go thru us when this happens, feelings of desertion,lonliness,of I just cant go on. They are no longer the people they were....and I know you can tell by the way she speaks to you. Really look into her eyes and you will see them so differently than they did before MLC doesnt even look like their eyes....just dark and empty looking. Before coming here I never even thought of MLC but it is a real thing they are going thru.....keep reading in here and learn all you can. This is very, very hard but you can and will survive it.
