Tristan you aren't a control freak, so don't worry about the label. If you were really in control of everything, your wife would be at home and you would have the greatest relationship you could possibly have with her - currently she's not at home, I would say that settles any arguments about the control issue.
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A control freak isn't someone who accomplishes control of others, it's someone who desires to control others, needs to control others, feels justified in controlling others. How much they achieve has nothing to do with it. There are small tyrants everywhere, ever been to a PTA meeting? lol.
BTW, I don't think you're a control freak either, tristan, I just thought that was an odd way to define it.
