The thing with the teen is very MLC-normal.

BUT....

Not acceptable.

Just because she is doing this, try not to let your kids become the "go-betweens" you need to set the example.

They do not need to be told all of the juicy gossip going on with their parents.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.