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Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage are you kidding #1838309 09/15/09 09:00 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	The thing with the teen is very MLC-normal. BUT.... Not acceptable. Just because she is doing this, try not to let your kids become the "go-betweens" you need to set the example. They do not need to be told all of the juicy gossip going on with their parents. There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage are you kidding #1838310 09/15/09 09:02 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 325 Likes: 91 B Boat14 Member
Boat14 Member B Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 325 Likes: 91	Being in the Auto business as well, I can tell you that we feel the urge to "fix" things. If a car breaks, we want to fix it. ( Or as a GSM, sell a new one ) Not the case here. This is gonna require good old fashioned hard work. If you can wrap your brain around this, and really ABSORB this, then you can have that chance at a "new" relationship with your wife. Time will tell Nothing you do right now will affect the outcome, BUT, Everything you do right now will affect the outcome.... Think hard about that, and what that means to you....

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage cat04 #1838311 09/15/09 09:02 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Yeah tired. Late night with wife. : ) Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage Jack_Three_Beans #1838312 09/15/09 09:04 PM
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Boat14 Member B Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 325 Likes: 91	Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans Yeah tired. Late night with wife. : ) Rolling yarn ? :p

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage Boat14 #1838313 09/15/09 09:05 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	If that's what they call it in West Virginia...then I'll play your game...sure. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage cat04 #1838315 09/15/09 09:06 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest A are you kidding OP Member
OP are you kidding Member A Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest	amphetimine salts so I can concentrate,focus,not daydream,be distracted,all the things that come with ADD,that no one knew I had.I experience every mood someone could experience every day, fortunately I've always been pretty resilient and driven.

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage are you kidding #1838320 09/15/09 09:11 PM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375 C cat04 Member
cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	Ok boys, maybe I shouldn't have asked. LOL AYK, Can they maybe give you something different? How does that work with the Lexipro? Resilient and driven is good, but wow... "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage brandnewday #1838321 09/15/09 09:11 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest A are you kidding OP Member
OP are you kidding Member A Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest	No,they're not a go between for me,I try to teach them,I've never or haven't gone to them on my issues.I've haven't yet said a bad thing about S to anyone.

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage are you kidding #1838324 09/15/09 09:16 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest A are you kidding OP Member
OP are you kidding Member A Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest	I did get a text from the OM alittle bit ago,remember he is my neighbor and i'm being nice and haven't confronted either of them. "All I want for you and your family is everyones happiness.Now what that happiness is will be depends on you,S,D,S.This will have to be you and her and not wishing anything other than situation be worked out the best way possible for all of you."

Re: 95% MLC in Anger stage are you kidding #1838326 09/15/09 09:18 PM
Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest A are you kidding OP Member
OP are you kidding Member A Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 786 Midwest	For the ADD,that's what has worked the best.Tried something else no effect.

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