JonF, someone earlier sent me a link to a detaching article and I have to admit on the Toxic Relationship list, about nine of them related to my relationship with my W.
A big one, she's always been emotionally distant and I worked constantly to bridge the gap.
I'd like to go dark at least a couple of weeks so I can get in charge of my emotions. All these weekends I've worked out of town were great, but I'm behind on my GALing.
Of course, I can't go completely dark because of my D10 and D7. But I'm going to do the best I can.
It sounds like you were still in the house. I'm out of it and my deep down fear in going dark is that she won't miss me at all.
That's my insecurity talking.
_____________________ M: 40 W: 38 Married: 13 years D: 10 D: 7 Bomb dropped: 2-09 Moved out: 5-09 No legal steps taken
