I am in the car business,I was a GSM,I've resigned that position and work 42.5 hrs now and no Saturdays. Too reduce her stress, I refinanced the house and cut the payment in half,paid off our credit card and S's student loan. I worked 65-70 hours a wk.

And my wife was pretty responsible with the kids,she wouldn't accept my help,she took it as critical always did if I got involved,she kept alot from me.

Our teen is her best friend and who she goes to for security,etc.And my teen goes to her to get away with stuff.