I don't think it will be productive to remind/tell her directly this is her choice, because that just becomes a negative thing where she spirals into anger and blaming me for creating this all and forcing her not to have a choice.
She has a unique way of looking back on our money and spending, and now she has drawn a line in what is/was "hers" versus what is/was "mine." At the end of the day she thinks she is coming out worse, though I feel I can show the facts to show I am the one losing out money-wise. But logic and facts have no place here, and I am not going to fight of a few thousand dollars when I know it will do nothing but stir up more resentment and anger.
Last edited by JKL2009; 09/15/0908:53 PM.
H35 W34 S4 | T-10 yrs M-6 yrs WAW said M over 04/09 | Living separate since 09/09 Thread #1 Thread #2 Thread #3
